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Hi Everyone, I hope everyone is having a great Easter Holiday and spending time with  your family. I have a few minutes until the ham comes out of the oven so wanted to reply to a few things I have been reading on here.
Personally, I am trying to weigh the pros and cons about both Clinton and Obama.
I have decided against McCain because I do believe this country does not need another hot headed yes man in office. (my opinion)
Hillary, has some experience but also stayed married to a man who has been unfaithful.
Obama goes to a church whose paster seems hateful and misguided to what spiritual faith is. He seems to love the power of being in charge...
 My question is, Does Hillary cheat because her husband cheats? Should she have divorced Billy Boy? Should Obama divorce his paster because of his paster's political views?
We all have personal reasons why we do and don't do things. But when it comes to business, don't we do what is best for the company?
After all, we didn't fire the pope, when we found out what alot of the cathlic priests were doing to children. How do we know they were not influenced by the pope himself? We are americans, we have an american president....do we all agree with what he says everytime he speaks?
Does Obama have other influences maybe and kept going to that church for family and tradition purposes? We all have friends in which we don't always agree with everything they say. We have parents and grandparents who we don't always agree with. But we can't fire them. Well we could but then we would have no family.
This paster has been in his life for 20 yrs, he is probably a part of his family.
Now, to be truthful, I am leaning toward Hillary.....but there are some concerns there as well. I believe she knows her stuff, but but  but.....
How can we really trust a women who puts her trust in a man who has done what he has done? And, we all know that there are some world leaders who she will have to deal with who absolutely hate women.
This election is a tough one! We need to keep personal feelings out of the way and use our heads. Just something to think about.
Happy Easter to all!

I GOT THIS IN AN EMAIL FROM A FRIEND

I INTEND TO LOOK INTO THIS WITH AN OPEN MIND AND HOPE OTHERS DO AS WELL.

"Oprah and Friends" to teach course on New Age Christ

Jesus Christ being reinvented, redefined, and blasphemed and, this false New- Age Christ teaching is about to make huge inroads into the world, with the help of the queen of television talk shows, Oprah Winfrey.

Oprah Winfrey, beginning January 1, 2008, on her daily radio program will offer a year-long course on the New Age Christ , in a lesson a day and completely cover the 365 lessons from the Course in Miracles "Workbook."

Listeners will be encouraged to buy A Course in Miracles for the year-long course, and an audio version, recited by Richard (John Boy
Walton) Thomas will be available on compact disc.

Those who finish the Course will have a wholly redefined spiritual mindset-a New Age worldview that include the beliefs that there is no sin, no evil, no devil. A Course in Miracles teaches its students to rethink everything they believe about God and life, and, bluntly
states: "This is a course in mind training" and is dedicated to "thought reversal."

The Course in Miracles -in reality-is the truth of the Bible turned upside down.

Oprah told her television audience that Williamson's book, A Course in Miracles was one of her favorite books, and that she had already bought a thousand copies and would be handing them out to everyone in her studio audience. Oprah's endorsement skyrocketed Williamson's book to the top of the New York Times bestseller list .

A Course in Miracles is allegedly a "new revelation" from "Jesus" to help humanity work through these troubled times. This "Jesus" - who bears no doctrinal resemblance to the Bible's Jesus Christ-began delivering channeled teachings in 1965 to a Columbia University Professor of Medical Psychology, Helen Schucman.

One day Schucman heard an "inner voice" stating, "This is a course in miracles. Please take notes." For seven years she diligently took spiritual dictation from this voice that described himself as "Jesus."

Here are some quotes from the "Jesus" voice of A Course in Miracles :

·         "There is no sin . . . "

·          A "slain Christ has no meaning."

·         "The journey to the cross should be the last ' useless journey."

·        "Do not make the pathetic error of 'clinging to the old rugged cross.'"

·        "The Name of Jesus Christ as such is but a symbol... It is a symbol that is safely used as a replacement for the many names of all the gods to which you pray."

·         "The recognition of God is the recognition of yourself." 

·         "The Atonement is the final lesson he [man] need learn, for it teaches him that, never having sinned, he has no need of salvation."

Popular author Wayne Dyer told his PBS television audience that the "brilliant writing" of A Course in Miracles would produce more peace in the world.

The Course in Miracles-based book, Forgiveness, continues to be sold in Robert Schuller's Crystal Cathedral bookstore as Schuller prepares to host a January 17-19, 2008, "Rethink Conference" at his Crystal Cathedral.



2 Timothy 3 (King James Version)

King James Version (KJV)

2 Timothy 3

1 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come.
2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
3 Without natural affection, truce breakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
4 Traitors, heady, high minded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God;
5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.

It's not surprising at all that Oprah Winfrey is supporting Barak Obama!!!

Christians.....Take heed!!

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY EVERYONE.

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There are too many people who think that their little neck of the woods is the entire world. With the media going rampet on politics and who gets to play president, we are losing site of the big picture. How about a little comman sense folks?  Just because you read something on the internet, see it on TV or on You Tube doen't mean its the truth. Don't let people pull the wool over your head because their voice is louder than yours or because they act like they know what they are talking about.

For instance, the upcoming election. There are why too many issues with big question marks .... Now is the time to ask questions and get answers. Pretty soon it will be too late. Some people feel what's the use. The people with the money and the power will get their way. Guess what folks, there are more people without money and power than there is WITH power in this country. Educate your families on the issues! If we pull together we can out vote them and get someone in office with comman sense who really understands the working class average family rearing Americans! I don't care where you came from, what color you are or if you can speak perfect english, if you pay taxes, you deserve to vote for what you believe will better this country!

As for me, I am keeping my ears and eyes and mind open.

I am waiting to see who the VICE PRESIDENTS may be. That tells a story all of it's own! In my opinion, we the people really screwed up the last few elections....Let's get on the ball this time!

CHILD DISCIPLINE Effectiveness of non-violent method relative to spanking is still debated. Those opposed to spanking argue that non-violent methods of child discipline are not only more humane, but more effective, than physical punishment such as spanking. Since spanking has been shown in scientific studies to lead to more misbehavior in the long run, a commitment to non-violent discipline can be expected to soon make parents' lives easier than they would have been otherwise. My argument: Spare the rod and spoil the child?

A) There are many ways to discipline young children:

1) TIME OUTS:

 One method often used for young children is the use of time-outs. A time-out involves isolating the child for a short period of time. Although the giving of time-outs is an extremely common parenting practice, it is also very widely misunderstood and misapplied. Ideally, the time-out is intended to give an over-excited child time to calm down. Many advocates of the time-out recommend that other methods of discipline are more appropriate when a child makes a calm, deliberate choice to misbehave. The theory behind the time-out is that children at young ages, (2-5 yrs old) are often frightened by their own lack of control when they throw tantrums. Thus, time-outs help children develop internal self-control, whereas methods like spanking, the child relies on someone else to forcibly control them.

2) Distraction:

Distraction is a method of stopping young children from continuing a problem behavior.For example, if the parent sees the young child involved in an unacceptable behavior, the parent suggests to the child a more interesting alternative, such as reading a book together, a dance around the room, singing songs, etc. This is followed by continuing to play with the child until her unacceptable behavior is forgotten, then take her from the area for other activities, in order to assure that they will not return to it. The distraction method relies on the fact that young children have very short attention spans. Thus, it becomes less useful as the child matures. Punishing a child at this age would be pointless and serve only to create unnecessary resentment. Distraction can involve hugging. Hugging is useful for children not yet capable of reasoning or those in, for example, the so-called "terrible twos." This is used mainly when the child is involved in persistent negative behavior or in destructive behavior. The child is picked up and hugged in such a way that the child does not get hurt but ceases their ill-behavior. As the child begins to quiet, they are rocked, sang to, or spoken to in soft, calming tones. They are then removed from the room and given an activity that distracts them from his previous concern.

3) Reason:

Children will come to the age when reasoning is a very effective discipline tool. At this time, the child may be told, for example, "If you play with the glass apple, your hands are small, and it could fall. It would break and cut you. You could follow this by allowing the child to sit on a carpeted floor allow the child to caress it for a short time, then putting it away. This not only satisfies the child's natural, healthy curiosity and opens up the possibility for communication, but it also gives the child one-on-one time with the parent. In a calm voice talk with your child and answer their questions and then put the apple away in a safe place.

4) Consequences:

Many parents and experts believe that logical consequences for misbehavior are also effective. For example, if a teenager uses the car without permission, a logical consequence would be that the car is off-limits for a period of time which includes an instance when the teen is greatly inconvenienced.

5) Modeling:

The parent must consistently show the child what kind of life is expected of him by not doing anything that the parent will not allow the child to do. Showing the child appropriate behavior will teach the child far faster and far more deeply than will disciplinary action for misbehavior. Modeling is worthy of the efforts of every parent and shows the child by example that the parent is willing to "walk the walk" as well as "talk the talk." When the parent errs, rather than covering up the error, advocates strongly suggest admitting the error, talking about it, and openly living through its consequences. Consistent effort on the part of the parent to model appropriate behavior with the ability to admit errors and apologize creates reciprocal respect for the parent and prevents resentment based on hypocrisy and double standards, say modeling proponents.

6) Praise and rewards:

 Praise and rewards (hugs, time with the child, etc.) for good behavior similarly goes much further as discipline than does punishment . Simply giving the child positive attention and respect when they are not misbehaving will also act as an extremely strong reinforcer for good behavior. It is very common for children who are otherwise ignored by their parents to turn to misbehavior as a way of seeking attention. Advocates of this method differ on the question of what exactly should be used as rewards. Some, for instance, are strongly opposed to the use of food or sweets as rewards; others find candy a very effective and appropriate incentive.

7) Scolding:

 Just as verbal praise is a powerful reinforcer for most children, verbal scolding can be an effective punishment. As with other punitive methods, however, over-reliance on scolding will drastically lessen its effectiveness. However, if gentle scolding is sometimes used in place of yelling, then the child won't be afraid. II. Be consistent: Whatever the age of the child, and whichever disciplinary solution you choose, always remember to be consistent. Consistency helps the child know that you mean business and also makes the child feel more secure when they know you are in charge.

Spare the rod and spoil the child? I say take the rod, attache a reel and go fishing with your child, don’t spank him.

What is your opinion?

REFERENCES:

www.medhelp.org/forums/childbehavior/archive/5.html>  

 www.StopHitting.com

Some schools offer the video 1,2,3, magic to parents who have discipline problems with their children.

After reading many blogs on various topics, I have found that many take things personally. Then the attacks start. Here are some simple guidelines to keep a check on your responses.

1. Before  you start a blog, remember that not everyone will agree with you. So don't take it personally. Don't T.I. P. ( take it personal)

2. Keep your responses short and simple. Kiss..(.Keep it simple)

3. Think before you speak . (I don't think this one needs an explanation.)

4. Have fun learing about people, you may have more in comman than you think.

5. Remember what this forum is all about. If  you want to fight, buy some boxing gloves and boxing bag. Don't bring it here.

I hope this  helps! Have a wonderful day. Keep smiling!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

................HANDY CHART.................
 
 God has a positive answer:
 YOU SAY..... GOD SAYS.... BIBLE VERSES
 You say: "It's impossible" God says: All
 things are possible (Luke 18:27)
 You say: "I'm too tired" God says: I will
 give you rest (Matthew 11:28-30)
 You say: "Nobody really loves me" God says:
 I love you ( John 3:1 6 & John 3:34 )
 You say: "I can't go on" God says: My grace
 is sufficient (II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalm 91:15)
 You say: "I can't figure things out" God
 says: I will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5- 6)
 You say: "I can't do it" God says: You can
 do all things (Phil ippians 4:13)
 You say: "I'm not able" God says: I am able
 (II Corinthians 9:8)
 You say: "It's not worth it" God says: It
 will be worth it (Roman 8:28 )
 You say: "I can't forgive myself" God says:
 I Forgive you (I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1)
 You say: "I can't manage" God says: I will
 supply all your needs (Philippians 4:19)
 You say: "I'm afraid" God says: I have not
 given you a spirit of fear (II Tim othy 1:7)
 You say: "I'm always worried and frustrated"
 God says: Cast all your cares on ME (I Peter 5:7)

 You say: "I'm not smart enough" God says: I
 give you wisdom (I Corinthians 1:30)
 You say: "I feel all alone" God says: I
 will never leave you or forsake you
 (Hebrews 13:5)

 
 
 The first sentence is pretty powerful!
 
 God determines who walks into your life....it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let
stay, and who you refuse to let go."

 
 Merry Christmas Everyone , May God bless your family with peace and goodwill towards all men.
 

I got this in my email and it made me think. I feel it's so sadly true.  I just wanted to share it because when we know better, we do better.

Isn't it amazing that George Carlin - comedian of the 70's and 80's - could write something so very eloquent...and so very appropriate.

     A wonderful Message by George Carlin:

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much , and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.

Remember, to say, "I love you" to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life e is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

                        George Carlin