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Sweetest Day is this Saturday (10/18), a day to recognize and remember your romantic sweetheart. Over the years, Sweetest Day has evolved into a time to express romantic love, so your choice of words and style of communication are critical.

What are the best things to say to your partner on SWEETEST DAY (and all year round.)

1. I Would Still Choose You.
2. What Is Your Opinion?
3. I Notice.
4. Let's Plan.



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car7858 read my blog view my photos
Oct 14, 2008 | 8:53 AM

I would ask her "What would you like to do today?". I am quite old-fashioned, a firm believer in surprises like flowers and gifts all through the year. Making a good relationship blossom is a daily task by both parties & letting your mate know they are loved & needed is #1. If it makes my wife happy & content, it also makes my life easier! LOL.

midevil read my blog
Oct 14, 2008 | 1:22 PM

LOVE? It's a guessing game. A joke in the world of romance. A pathetic tool to make people wish to want each other.

Things to say on the SWEETEST DAY.

1. Have you been having an affair?
2. I don't want to hear your crappola.
3. Why would I want to look into "your eyes"
4. Let's plan our vacation together. I'll go to Alaska, and you go wherever.

LOVE....ISH-UGH-PATOOIE-SNARK.

StooltimeCounseling read my blog view my photos
Oct 14, 2008 | 2:12 PM

Who needs another Hallmark holiday to acknowledge and validate your mate? That's something that can be done everyday to keep the emotional intimacy alive!

former_detroiter read my blog view my photos
Oct 14, 2008 | 2:24 PM

ROTFL Mid.lol

Your list would be valid if both partners believed in Sweetest Day Doc. How about us who live with holiday athiests? What best things should we ask? lol

I`m a romantic. Flowers,candy,surprise gifts.....

Hubby is........flowers,candy,gifts? Who needs `em. Just my presence is gift enough....:O) ( yet he enjoys gifts given to him.....hmmmmm. ) lol

former_detroiter read my blog view my photos
Oct 14, 2008 | 2:25 PM

atheists oops.

shockhazard read my blog view my photos
Oct 14, 2008 | 5:05 PM

I can't say anything with all of the chocolates I bought her in my mouth !

former_detroiter read my blog view my photos
Oct 14, 2008 | 6:25 PM

LOLOLOLOL

gonowkwam read my blog view my photos
Oct 14, 2008 | 7:22 PM

sweetest thing to hear this sweetest day....McCain ahead in the poles by a landslide....

jax276 read my blog view my photos
Oct 14, 2008 | 7:57 PM

If someone wanted me as a mate I would have them have their head examined and I'd pay as a sweetest day gift.

midevil read my blog
Oct 15, 2008 | 10:02 AM

No, I guess the best thing I would like to tell my sweetie on that special day is,

(drumroll)

"Have you had a chance to wax the Harley and boat between your 2nd and 3rd job, or am I going to have to be forced to get up from the middle of this game and do it myself, and by the way, while you were out, YOUR DOG pooped on the rug. Can you come home during lunch and let him out? Have you got lunch ready, DEAR?"

gonowkwam read my blog view my photos
Oct 15, 2008 | 12:46 PM

mid....you are evil...are you my brother? lol

former_detroiter read my blog view my photos
Oct 15, 2008 | 2:03 PM

Mid if you were my mate.......

Sorry dearest I sold the Harley and boat and your game to pay for a housekeeper to clean up after poochie and let him out. Lunch is ready though......in Iowa. :O)

shockhazard read my blog view my photos
Oct 15, 2008 | 3:46 PM

Good to see you back LoveDR. !

car7858 read my blog view my photos
Oct 15, 2008 | 4:15 PM

Midevils Rule! LOL!!!

midevil read my blog
Oct 16, 2008 | 1:59 AM

F_D,

Never, never, ever tell a Harley Man that you've sold his ride. That in itself is the vilest thing any woman can do. Statements to a riders face like that one, actually causes momentary blindness, a dunce sense of uncontrollable shaking due to fear, and within a few seconds, you can see the blood drain out of his face as his soul leaves his body and places it somewhere out into a land of limbo and it can never be re-found.

6 things you cannot do to a dedicated husband.

1. Never talk rough about his Harley. That will cause emotional disruption in any marriage.

2. Never kick his favorite dog or give him any sort of sweetness food, such as pansy BLEEP chocolate. A dog was designed to hunt, kill, and eat red meat with his owner beside him doing the same thing.

3. Don't ever touch his guns. Guns are the Holy Grail to any husband. They are the pride and inner strength men retain. Any man worth his weight in salt can instantly spot a female fingerprint on any gun from at least a 100 yards away. Even if it was a mistake and while you were pregnant with twins and was cooking stew for you man, and you figured you had better dust and inadvertently touched one of his guns, you had better drop to your knees and begin to beg forgiveness.

4. Tools. Tools are the quintessential extension of a man's arms and legs. Any woman who loves her man should be downstairs during the night polishing those beautiful, chromed pieces of steel. Brutally tough and as strong as Superman. Forget sleeping before you go to your 3rd job. A man's tool is

midevil read my blog
Oct 16, 2008 | 2:00 AM

his pride and joy.

5. His truck, atv and boat. What can be said about these objects of pure desire? No topless woman could distract any man who's admiring his toys. (well, toys will be okay if you just take a couple of quick stares and drool a little. Remember, being a topless woman is good and it gives her man wood), but we're talking naked wives, and TOYS? There simply is no true comparison or answer to that moronic question. Toys are to be respected, used and abused, and put away wet. They're made to handle the job when called on.

6. Least, but not least. A man's underwear is the containment line between love and a quickie divorce in Nevada. A man's like to get up, stretch, yawn, fart and then scratch the boys. He can be in and out of the shower in 11 seconds (that's a pansy BLEEP if it takes that long), and then when half wet, half dry, all men like to cram their boys into a dry pair of cotton grundies. They are marked by usage with yellow in front, and brown in the back. They are comfortable only after you're wiggle the boys into the nesting spot, and then it's off to the races. To take a man's grundies and wash them with that girlish smelling soap is nothing more than a downright travesty. They hang horse thieves in Canada for less. Real men like to know that should they have a need to put their hands to warm up, what better place is there than to stuff your hands down into the carpeted love nest hotel. That way, when you have to pee, you've got "RICHARD right there to wipe out and spell your name.

You see F_D, you unde

midevil read my blog
Oct 16, 2008 | 2:00 AM

under estimate what your mate is truly about.

Mine just shakes her head and then sighs a lot.

But she knows the rules.

shockhazard read my blog view my photos
Oct 17, 2008 | 2:49 PM

One of my ex's told me this , it was either give up the band or her .
After a lengthy sexual engadgement , I told her that I would miss her !

midevil read my blog
Oct 17, 2008 | 3:45 PM

LOL Shock.

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Hi! I am Dr. Terri Orbuch (Ph.D.), The Love Doctor. I am a psychologist, marriage and family therapist, Oakland University professor, and research professor at The University of Michigan, Institute for Social Research. I so enjoy my Love Doctor segments every Tuesday between 8-9 a.m. on Fox 2 morning news. Relationships are so vital to our health and wellbeing! As an NIH-funded research scientist affiliated with two universities, I have access to the most current findings about relationships. There is a wealth of fascinating information that “gets lost in dry academic journals that few people read.” I am passionate about bringing new or buried information to you in the form of realistic advice you can readily understand and use. I grew up in Minneapolis. I have been married for 15 years and I am the proud mother of two children (10 and 13 years old).

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